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ESCAPING SELF-IMPOSED TRAPS

5/23/2012

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Have you ever felt 
as if you’re hemmed in by a part of yourself?
You realize this “something” 
is standing in the way of your growth as a person 
and your freedom to really become who you were meant to be.  
Maybe you've attempted, 
time and again to push it away, 
but it stubbornly refuses to move, 
as if it were firmly stuck in hardened cement. 
  
In the past week, I’ve been working on polishing Joel’s Wife.  
At one point, Jerusha (Joel’s wife) speaks to Hannah, 
her grandmother-in-law, 
“But,” she looked up at Hannah sadly, 
“the fear . . . is still there.  
Do you think there’s hope of it ever going away?”
Hannah smiled.  “There’s always hope.  
But sometimes fears remain until we’re willing to face them head on. 
I don’t think either worrying about it 
or trying to force yourself to stop being afraid will do much good.   
The best thing, I think, 
is to talk honestly to God about your concerns.  
Listen to what He has to say.”
 
Jerusha’s situation seems to fit so many of us. 
It may not be fear.  
It could be lack of self-control.  
Or unforgiveness.  
Or self-centeredness.
But might the solution be the same? 
That solution, Hannah tells Jerusha, 
will not come by worrying about it, 
or even by trying to force ourselves to change
Instead, we must be willing 
to face our problem head on with the help of God. 
 
The Lord is our hope, Hannah says.
He understands our deepest heart, 
the core part of our being that is hidden even to ourselves.  
He understands how we were formed, 
not just physically, but emotionally, and spiritually. 
Maybe you are really tired of being confined by self-obstruction.
You’ve tried to force yourself to be different 
and have found it doesn’t work.
If so, you may want to try Hannah’s suggestion.
“The best thing, I think, is to talk honestly to God about your concerns.  
Listen to what He has to say.”
 
How exactly does this work?
The first key is to require ourselves
to speak the absolute truth as completely as we know it.
The second is to take time to listen for God’s response.
 
A couple days ago,
I began doing this with another issue in my life. 
What about you?
 
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    Arlene Pinkley Ussery shares insights and research concerning  the power of the story to change values of individuals and societies. Relying on research, she shows how good literature improves readers relationships, mental, emotional, and spiritual health.  From her experience of living in Israel and studying the Bible, history, and culture, she deepens readers understanding of Biblical times. Her stories challenge and comfort.

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